THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE
THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE.
The majority of husbands and wives across the world expect their
marriages to be lifelong commitments. The unavoidable ups
and downs of marriage have prompted many husbands and wive to
the inquiry, “What shall we reliance on during a long-term relationship?”
“What dare will we face?” “How can we face these
challenges successfully?” [Note: The word “marriage” can be
used interchangeably with “relationship” in this publication
if you are not married].
These are The crucial stages of marriage a couple passed through. Though lengthy, but worth reading to the end.
THE HONEYMOON STAGE
Usually, the first year or two could also be a passion-fueled period that’s all about the 2 of you and you’re intense specialisation in the attraction that made you’d like to steer down the aisle, to begin with. It’s the elementary, sweeping romance that often consumes a couple when they are first to come together.
THE AMAZEMENT STAGE
This is the “wow” stage. Lots of new things to get together with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so astonishing. Nighting on a comparable bed, putting on an identical attire, making food for him, doing housekeeping together with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding band everywhere, turning people’s heads at the most recent couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being on top of things in your kitchen, feeding him and much more. It’s the honeymoon stage and it is so so beautiful.
THE IRRITATION STAGE
This is once you begin to record weaknesses you’ve got overlooked or blissfully wish they are going away but didn’t. The reiteration of such weaknesses begins to figure on your nerves and you’re getting irritated: he snores tons, she farts an outrageous amount of, he eats a lot, she dillydallies within the kitchen, she gushes loudly, he screeches unnecessarily, she won’t bathe before coming to bed or shave, he always spends much time watching football and disregard you once you speak, oh my world, she is a faultfinding woman. “What’s just wrong with this man?” you presume that audibly, well it is a part of marriage.
THE ANGER STAGE
By the time the reiteration of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted spouse stuff it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the vexing habit. It’s the stage you start to wonder: “have I actually married the incorrect guy?” “Have I married the wrong woman?” No, you almost certainly didn’t, you’re simply browsing a phrase together.
THE RESOLUTION STAGE
When you both begin to face the truth of marriage and acknowledge your partner’s weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice don’t solve any problem and begin to seek ways to affect your differences, both of you start to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.
THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE
When it dawned on you that some things are just a part of your partner and should never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and prefer to accept them, lovingly suits them and luxuriate in them no matter their weaknesses
THE RESTFUL STAGE
This is the chapter you permanently accept them with all their strengths, defects, shortcomings and flaws and love them unconditionally no matter what they are doing. This must be genuine love agape, divine and correct. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and luxuriate in honeymoon again while building an enduring marriage no matter the challenges you face. Remember when You pass through these stages always put God first and never let go. GODLY KEYS TO DISCOVER QUALITY RELATIONSHIP
May we all have a successful marriage,